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Today is quite curious. While some are enjoying the sweetness of love, others go ruminating bitterly their spite. And the heart that matters good and bad times in store. That is why Valentine's Day is a day hybrid: some people are very happy place and one that is very sad and despair, all at the same time.
Although each person has a story of broken heart, the truth is that the rebound is not the same for everyone. There are several types of spite and at least everyone has experienced one of them sometime. Here I summarize the most common: Spite
public: That know about it until the lady who makes The manicure, if female, or trusted mechanic shop, in the case of men. The spiteful that need to publish his sorrow usually always face that hurts the stomach, they speak as if they were complaining and waiting for the glorious moment when someone asks: Is something wrong? That release their history, usually from its inception, including small talk, only insignificant details and transcendent moment for them, until they reach the final tears is the one that has deeply spiteful. People are placed on Facebook, MSN, Gtalk and Twitter things like: "Missing you much, were the best in my life, I hope to come back" "When love is over: (" or fragments of songs like "nothing is more difficult to live without you." That is despite public has several missions in life: to recover the object of his wrath, that all world knows she is vexed and grieved @ / sad / bitter the rest of humanity.
Spite timed: This is despite the expiration date. The spiteful person in question is sinking in alcohol, how much is destroyed in disco / bar / seedy tagua is achieved more cortavenas listen to tracks in the world to sing loudly and mourn piteously, but does it all for a limited period. It makes no more than three months this despite the established time and then recover their dignity, completely forgetting the object of their defiance and despair in general. Usually these people are applying a nail out another and so make it out of spite as relatively fast and their pride (almost) intact. Spite
never ending: It happens to people who stay in spite of a lifetime, or at least for a very long time, by the same person. Are that, while the other partying, enjoy, tie, tie-breaker, really, is ennovian, marry, have children, work very hard, retire and collect their pensions, still thinking about so and so and so that there by 1920 they broke my heart. The lives of these people are stuck in that time the left / threw / bounced back and never forward or does so very slow. In Venezuela they are known popularly as malpegados and are recognized by almost always mention how misplaced the object of his spite in conversations that are holding, and this is quantum physics, the global economic crisis or global warming. From what you say you will recognize. Spite
newspaper: Those who suffer are usually unstable people from time to time be grieved by a different love. When everyone is betting that that person gave no chance or falling in love with someone, is that not only fell in love with: too broke, fought and enraged by that someone. They are people who have countless stories of countless suitors / pending / final prospectus that are impossible to remember by listeners of their stories, especially since everyone agrees their unhappy endings. These people usually always live in love and hopeful but false end suffering, believe it or not, real spites. Spite
Farandulera: This will suffer a little more for women, although men are not exempt. There are people who love horrors of famous people, the protagonists of the novels, movie heartthrobs. Thus, despite horrors is also when you realize that your partner is not perfect but this is rather a normal person's Very common. Pretty average, maybe. And if you have a partner, of course.
The best is on land. Women: Do not get depressed if I never yell at the bow of a ship "I'm flying" while behind a Leonardo DiCaprio embraces much in love. Men: Do not get depressed if you never manage to have the clone of Megan Fox in her arms. Understand that these prototypes of perfect men and women are exceptions, fiction, and in many cases, Photoshop. Enjoy your love real life and not to compare them to your partner with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, for example. No ordinary person stacks up well in such comparisons, even you. Spite
multitasking: There are people who take advantage of their spite. Rather than mourn, lament or curse the world, fit in the gym, start a postgraduate course, do yoga, learn three languages, change the look and embark on a long list of ambitious projects. The consequences will not wait: after a long look sculptural bodies, graduating with honors, find peace, conquered in three languages, imposing fashion and even become role models within their society. In the end, end up convinced that they are better off without the object of his spite. Better still, with so many victories, many they end up forgetting that at some point were spiteful. Spite
ironic If someone lives around saying that love stinks, learn: that someone is disgruntled. The despair is deeper the more ironic jeers and jokes are made at the expense of love, lovers and romantic things. Generally this person would want to ruin the lives of others but in a subtle and humorous that people are not even aware. Unlike the Grinch who wanted to steal Christmas, this person wants to steal the Valentine's Day because his days are generally more miserable. Behind the all-knowing chuckle and cynical attitude, one person deeply painful it is even more toxic than those who live their spite in public. So take care of it because of bad energy and despair that ruined the lives of that person can spread it to you.
I hope, really, that today no one has to identify with such spite. But if you are vexed, not into depression, remember that today is also Friendship Day. And friendship and friends always give reason to smile and celebrate right? Joanna Ruiz Méndez